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  • published Ask Before You Eat - Pledge in Ask Before You Eat 2013-09-05 13:09:57 -0400

    Ask Before You Eat - Pledge

    Beginning October 1, 2013 North Carolina bars and restaurants, even those that serve alcohol, must allow permit holders to carry their concealed handguns on the premises UNLESS the owner posts a “conspicuous notice” prohibiting them.

    North Carolinians against Gun Violence (NCGV) has laminated signs available for owners of restaurants or bars who do not wish to allow weapons in their establishments. NCGV is also growing a list of the places posting against weapons. This list is available on our website so people know where to take their families that will still allow us to eat in peace.

    We would love to add your establishment to that list.

    Use the form below to pledge to post against weapons in your business. You will receive an information packet, including a laminated sign.

    Please note: by signing below you will be included on our list of restaurants.

    As a local bar or restaurant owner I care about the safety of my staff and customers.  No one in my establishment should need to worry about the threat of loaded, concealed weapons.

    I will be posting against weapons at my business.

    Add Pledge

  • published How to Ask Before You Eat in Ask Before You Eat 2013-09-05 12:59:40 -0400


    How to Ask Before You Eat

    You can help keep loaded, concealed weapons out of bars and family restaurants.  The tips and materials below are to help you ask your local restaurants to post against.

    Here are some helpful talking points when visiting bars and restaurants (Download Tips Here):

    • Ask owners/managers if they know about the new law.(Session Law 2013-369)
    • Let them know you choose to visit establishments that protect customer safety by prohibiting concealed weapons.
    • Talk about wanting to feel safe and how it makes you feel to know loaded, concealed weapons could be in the business.
    • Share if you have spoken with other families who oppose weapons in bars and restaurants.
    • Ask if they will post a sign prohibiting concealed weapons.
    • Let them know NCGV has free signs and helpful materials.

    If you are uncomfortable having the conversation, or if the appropriate decision maker is not available, you can leave the following note with your server to deliver to the owner/manager. (You can download this letter here.)

    Dear Business Owner,

    As a customer of your business, I wanted to make sure you were aware of new legislation, which will affect your restaurant.

    On October 1, 2013, NC citizens began having to ask their servers if the places we enjoy taking our families out to eat or socialize allow loaded, concealed guns. Many restaurant owners/managers are still unaware of this law or have not thought about how they will deal with it.

    It used to be that any incident of death or injury from a concealed gun was the liability of the gun carrier but after Oct. 1st that liability is heavier on the business owner than the gun carrier. And we patrons are less safe. i.e. The business owner may be liable if a restaurant/bar chooses to allow loaded concealed guns when the establishment could have disallowed them by posting a sign prohibiting carrying a gun.

    North Carolinians against Gun Violence (NCGV) has laminated signs available for owners of restaurants or bars who do not wish to allow weapons in their establishments.

    You can contact NCGV to get one while they last. NCGV is also growing a list of the places we can search on their website so we know where to take our families that will still allow us to eat in peace. We would love to add your establishment to that list.

    Please contact NCGV at to ask for a sign and to be included on the list.

    I ask that you consider posting against. Families should not have to wonder if there loaded, concealed weapons where they eat.

    Thank You.





  • followed A Step Forward 2012-12-17 20:00:38 -0500

    A Step Forward

    In 2011 the “Castle Doctrine” law went into effect in North Carolina.  This law allows anyone to use "deadly Children Playing
    force" if they feel threatened without the fear of civil or criminal accountability.  This law extended far past someone's "castle" and includes their car and office. 

    On February 26, 2012 this country experienced the tragic death of Trayvon Martin, the teenager shot and killed while armed with nothing more than a bag of skittles.  A similar law in Florida protected Trayvon’s shooter for far too long. 

    Yet Trayvon was not the first (or last) victim of these vigilante laws. Since passing in 2005, the number of “justifiable” deaths has almost tripled to an average of 35 a year, an increase of 283% from 2005-2010. In fact, Florida's Stand Your Ground Law been used to free gang members, drug dealers and even people who shot their victims in the back.

    In South Carolina since enacting its “Shoot First” law, so-called ‘justifiable homicides’ increased in the state -- 45% compared to the four years prior. It's not too late to prevent this tragedy and injustice in North Carolina.

     Read full text of the law.

    104 signatures
    Recognizing the impending threat to North Carolina families several brave legislators have attempted to pass legislation to amend or repeal NC's Castle Doctrine.  To date these efforts have been defeated by extremist lawmakers beholden to the gun industry.
    Sign below to show your support for the repeal of the Castle Doctrine 
    Add signature

  • published Castle Doctrine 2012-03-26 10:47:59 -0400

    Castle Doctrine

    Since the expansion of the Castle Doctrine in December 2011, every argument, altercation, and confrontation has the potential added element of a weapon. The intent maybe different, as written, but the results are not.

    Trayvon Martin is only one story of how the gun laws have enabled the over-zealous to "shoot first." Elected officials across the country are already speaking out against "shoot first" laws, and many of the original supporters of the legislation have made it clear that given a second chance, they would oppose “Shoot First.”

    Fourteen NC Representatives have taken a second look at the new version of the law. Ours is similar to the one in Florida, which enabled George Zimmerman to shoot unarmed Trayvon Martin because he claims he thought the teen posed a threat in his neighborhood. The bill they introduced, HB 1192, titled “Amend Castle Doctrine/Repeal Stand Ground” is a reasonable law. We will all still be able to protect our homes and families if necessary.

     Contact your representative now! Then send the link below to your family and friends so they can contact their representatives as well!


    More on the law as it is now -

    Castle Doctrine:  Legalizes Murder and Vigilantism

    NOT Self-Defense

    In North Carolina every citizen has the right to use deadly force to defend themselves or their families. If someone protects themselves with force they will not be prosecuted as long as they had no opportunity to retreat. Our current law removes this “duty to retreat” and is an invitation to the reckless use of deadly force.

    Where Does Your Castle End?

    The “Castle Doctrine” implies that this law applies only to a home or residence.  However our current law extends past the individual’s home to their workplace, and vehicle. The shooter could receive immunity for shooting recklessly into a crowd, as long as he thought he was in serious danger. This law provides the shooter civil and criminal immunity for any death or injury whether to a hardened criminal or a helpless child who was only a by-stander.

     Encourages and Excuses Vigilantism

    America’s police officers undergo months of intensive training to learn the judicious use of deadly force in a public setting.  They learn, through that training that the use of deadly force in public is excruciatingly dangerous, and that innocent bystanders can easily be injured or killed. Police leaders and prosecutors in numerous states are concerned these laws will send a message of empowerment to the most aggressive individuals in society – that rather than serve to defend people who use deadly force in a truly life-threatening situation, it will serve as an excuse to edgy individuals. 

     Who Does this Law Endanger?  You.

    This law provides protection for someone using deadly force -- it provides no protections for the innocent victims caught in the crossfire.  Worse yet this law directly threatens North Carolinians whose jobs require them to visit others homes and properties.  For example a social worker on an unannounced home visit, volunteers distributing materials door to door, or even a mailman delivering a package. 

     The Threat is Real.

    After passing similar legislation:

    Kenneth Allen, 58, twice shot his neighbor, Jason Rosenbloom, 30, in early June 2006.  Rosenbloom went to Allen’s house about a complaint filed. “I was no threat.  I had no weapon… He had a gun.  I turned around to put my hands up.  He didn’t even say a word, and he fired once into my stomach.  I bent over, and he shot me in the chest,” Rosenbloom told the New York Times. [New York Times, 8-7-06]

    Christopher Cote, 19, of The Acreage, Florida was shot twice with a shotgun and killed by his neighbor, Jose Tapanes, 62, September 17 after an argument began when Cote walked his dog on Tapanes’ property.  Tapanes has been charged with first-degree murder and has argued that the new Florida law gave him the right to kill the teen. [Miami Herald, 9-18-06]

     Gary Lee Hill got in an argument with a group of people at his house. There was a physical fight, but as the group of people drove away, Hill walked out away from his house with a gun, and shot one of the group, John Lee Knott, in the back.  Mr. Hill was found “not guilty’ according to the standards of Colorado’s “Shoot First” law.


    Read the Full Text of the Law

  • published For Katterine, store guns safely from kids in Blog 2012-03-22 15:25:10 -0400

    For Katterine, store guns safely from kids

    Posted from Charlotte Observer, 9/27/1

    Someone should put up huge billboards across the state with the image of doe-eyed little Katterine Palma. The signs should serve as in-your-face reminders of what can be lost when adults are careless with firearms. Sweet-faced, 4-year-old Katterine is dead, killed by another child who found a loaded gun an adult left unlocked in a bedroom.

    That adult, Erin Melendez, 37, was charged Saturday with storing a gun in a manner accessible to a minor. Katterine was reportedly the 4-year-old niece of Mirna Palma. Melendez lived with Mirna Palma at the apartment where the shooting took place.

    Palma's 3-year-old son and 11-year-old nephew - Katterine's brother - were in the bedroom at the time of the shooting. Police said the shooting was accidental. They haven't said who pulled the trigger.

    Neither child should have to bear the weight of the responsibility for such an incident. To kids that young, guns are curiosities and often viewed as playthings. To a three-year-old especially, it would be hard to fathom that it could end a life.

    But adults do understand. That's why they have enormous responsibility to keep lethal weapons out of the reach of children. When adults fail, tragic things can and do happen. Katterine, lying in a pool of blood, is the sad proof.

    Here are some facts you should know about firearms in this state and nation:


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  • published LISTEN: Executive Director Interview on HB 650 in Blog 2012-03-22 15:23:40 -0400

    LISTEN: Executive Director Interview on HB 650

    Interview with WRAL on repercussions of House Bill 650 and NCGV's campaign to keep guns off city playgrounds and athletic fields.


  • published Smoking banned in parks where guns are welcome? in Blog 2012-03-22 15:21:57 -0400

    Smoking banned in parks where guns are welcome?

    Durham Herald Letter to the Editor by Board Member Sandy Ogburn

    Smoking banned in parks where guns are welcome?

    Durham city and county leaders, urged by the Health Department, are contemplating expansion of the ban on smoking in public areas. This is being done for public safety since all of us are at increased risk of the deleterious health effects from second hand smoke. This is good.

    On Dec. 1, provisions of NC House Bill 650 become effective. This new state law prohibits local governments from banning the carrying of permitted concealed handguns onto local government property — including parks and recreation areas. This does not make me feel safe. I wonder how many families taking children to our playgrounds or going to sporting events at our playing fields know about this new law. How are families supposed to enjoy the otherwise healthy activities that take place at recreational facilities if they must worry that the person next to them might be carrying a loaded weapon?


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  • published How Could this Happen? in Blog 2012-03-22 11:01:12 -0400

    Could a Trayvon Martin case happen in NC?

    By now you probably know about the tragic shooting of Trayvon Martin, who was gunned down in Florida by a man who said he was defending himself from a 17 year old boy armed with Skittles and an iced tea.  Part of the reason this man, George Zimmerman, has not yet been arrested is because of Florida’s “Stand Your Ground” law.  This law gives the benefit of the doubt to those who use deadly force when they feel threatened.   Under the Stand Your Ground law, an individual does not have the responsibility to retreat, even when they may do so safely. 

     What you may not know is that the Florida law is just one of 21 similar laws passed around the country in recent years.  One of those 21 laws was passed in North Carolina last year—the Castle Doctrine Law (House Bill 650).  Castle Doctrine implies that this legislation applies only to a home or residence.  However, HB 650 extends past the individual’s home to their workplace or vehicle. Making them immune to civil or criminal prosecution if they claim they felt threatened or in danger.

    Since the Stand Your Ground law went into effect in Florida, the number of justifiable homicides has tripled.  And a young life was tragically cut short because of a claim of self-defense.  It’s time for Florida, North Carolina, and states across this country to take a hard look at these Stand Your Ground Laws.  Changes need to be made before another tragedy occurs. 

  • published What do voters think about gun laws? in Fact Sheets 2012-03-12 18:46:57 -0400

    What do voters think about gun laws?

    Despite the controversy surrounding the issue, the majority of voters favor common sense gun laws.

    Here in North Carolina voters, including gun owners, support background checks and permits which can keep guns out of the wrong hands.

    •    90% of North Carolina voters support background checks on all gun sales, this includes 87% of reported gun owners.

    •    Background checks have bi-partisan support; including 86% of Republicans and 87% of self-identified ‘conservatives’.

    •    67% of North Carolina voters support county permits for handguns, this includes 57% of reported gun owners.

    •    Handgun permits also have bi-partisan support; including 62% of Republicans and 59% of self-identified ‘conservatives’.

    Nationwide: Voters, including gun owners, support sensible gun laws which close legal gaps to keep guns out of the wrong hands

    •    90 percent of Americans and 90 percent of gun owners support fixing gaps in government databases that are meant to prevent the mentally ill, drug abusers and others from buying guns.

    •    91 percent of Americans and 93 percent of gun owners support requiring federal agencies to share information about suspected dangerous persons or terrorists to prevent them from buying guns. 

    •    86 percent of Americans and 81 percent of gun owners support requiring all gun buyers to pass a background check, no matter where they buy the gun and no matter who they buy it from. 

    •    89 percent of Americans and 85 percent of gun owners support a law to require background checks for all guns sold at gun shows. 

    •    51% of voters feel the laws covering the sale of guns should be made more strict and 39% support keeping our current gun laws, only 7% of voters think current gun laws should be less strict

    •    81% of voters support laws tracking the bulk purchase of  assault rifles

    •    57 % of voters reported feeling less safe knowing people can carry loaded, concealed guns in public**

    •    74% of Americans and 70% of gun owners believe our government can both protect gun owners' rights, and simultaneously prevent criminals and other dangerous people from having guns.

    •    In the aftermath of the assassination attempt in Tucson 50% of Americans believe we should make it harder for dangerous people to have access to guns.

    Download this Fact Sheet 
    Polling Sources:

    Elon University Poll, April 2011

    Public Policy Polling, December, 2010

    Momentum Analysis & American Viewpoint Poll, 2011 

    Lake Research Partners April 2010

  • published Teachers Resources in Resources 2012-03-07 18:19:09 -0500

    Teachers Resources

    Below you will find curriculum suggestions and materials for teaching your students about gun violence and violence prevention. If you need more help contact us at and we will work with you to create a program that meets the specific needs of your students.

    Middle School Presentation Power Point

    Hand Without Guns: Activity Book for Young Children

    Basic Programming for Children 4+

    Basic Programming for Grades 6-8th

    Facts & Questions for Teens

  • published Volunteer Packet in Resources 2012-03-07 17:58:55 -0500

  • published Violence Prevention Organizations in Resources 2012-03-07 17:55:06 -0500

  • published Fact Sheets in Resources 2012-03-07 17:43:55 -0500

    Fact Sheets 

    Below are a variety of PDF fact sheets on gun violence and gun safety. To open the document click on the text name and then choose to SAVE or OPEN. Please feel free to distribute these materials.

    Child Gun Safety Tips

    Kids Access to Guns

    What do voters think about gun laws?

    Preventing Adolescent Suicide

  • followed Legislation 2013-06-11 17:16:52 -0400

  • published NC Restaurant and Loding Association in Blog 2012-03-03 16:51:42 -0500

    NC Restaurant and Loding Association

    Thank you to everyone who has participated in our Eat in Peace campaign - asking the local places they eat to pledge to post.  Your response was amazing and we thank you for taking action to build a safer North Carolina. 

    Now we ask you to reach out to the North Carolina Restaurant and Lodging Association.  Despite the majority of the state opposing loaded, concealed weapons in restaurants, the Restaurant Association continues to take no stand on House Bill 111. 

    We must stop this dangerous legislation and we need your help. Help us keep North Carolina a safe for all families.  Send your message using this link:

  • followed Eat in Peace 2013-03-14 16:35:35 -0400

    Eat in Peace

    Everyone deserves the right to live in safe communities, free from gun violence. For the past few months, many of you have worked with us to keep loaded guns out of places where children play. Now, we ask for your help again.

    Just like the majority of North Carolina families, NCGV believes in sensible gun laws. In fact, a recent poll found that found  72% of North Carolinians disagree with permitting people to carry handguns in restaurants and bars. 

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  • Keep Guns off Greensboro Playgrounds

    Under the recently passed House Bill 650 loaded, hidden guns are now allowed in more public places. However, cities and counties have the right to prohibit guns in recreational facilities.

    The Greensboro City Council is considering an ordinance that will keep guns out of city recreational facilities, including swimming pools athletic fields, and playgrounds. 

    Sign the petition below to show your support for this ordinance.  Send the message "there’s no room for a gun on a playground."

    We will be delivering your signatures to the Greensboro City Council. Make sure your voice is heard before this critical vote -- sign today.

    36 signatures
    I urge you to keep loaded, hidden guns out of Greensboro's recreational facilities.  
    Just like most of the other residents of Greensboro, I'll feel less safe if loaded guns are allowed in athletic fields and playgrounds.

    Please pass the ordinance prohibiting guns from our city's recreational areas.

    Add signature

  • Blowing Rock Votes to Keep Guns out of Recreational Facilities

    Last night the Blowing Rock Town Council by a 3 to 2 vote passed an ordinance prohibiting loaded, concealed guns on town playgrounds and athletic fields.

    This month, a new state law allows local governments to permit handguns in parks and playgrounds. It's part of sweeping legislation passed this summer that makes it easier for people to obtain weapons and to carry them in more public places.

    But town councils and county commissioners across the state are opting out of a section of the law that allows guns in recreational areas, such as swimming pools and athletic fields.

    With this vote, Blowing Rock joins the more than 20 local governments that have decided that guns and playgrounds don't mix.

    To join the statewide campaign visit:

  • published January 8th Vigil in Blog 2011-12-28 18:20:07 -0500

    January 8th Vigil

    January 8 is the one-year anniversary of the Tucson Massacre, which claimed the lives of six Americans and wounded 13 others. On this somber day, we will remember all of those who have been hurt by and lost to gun violence.

    In cities across the country, we will gather. In Raleigh we will light a candle for those we've lost and pledge to build peaceful communities. Every light could let one more child see another birthday, a graduation, a wedding and the birth of new children in turn. Every light could be a life.

    RSVP here: